So, we all know that the holidays can be stressful for a thousand different reasons and, sometimes there are people in one’s life who are just determined that they are going to try to make everyone around them as miserable as they are. Some people call them psychic vampires because they literally try to suck all of the joy and anything positive right out of you. I have had a few of those in my life over the past couple of years, and am here to tell you right now, that only YOU can determine how happy you are or can be. Don’t give away the part of yourself that believes….believes in your faith, in humankind, in the good of others, in the season, in life in general. God is good, and sometimes, just by your refusal to let others be ugly, your light and His can shine through and help to be the change that illicits their change!!! Happy Holidays!!!